When you have problems then you first need to relax.
Calm down. Take a big breathe. And listen to the music.
Just dont listen to the Sad songs and cry. Either you can listen to smooth instrumental jazz or dance, club music.
But i recommend Smooth jazz music for all people who are sad and confused.
You dnt need to search your hard disk. Just open this Sky.fm with the following link
http://www.sky.fm/smoothjazz/
If your internet is slow then choose the 24k else choose higher speed 96k.
I listen to this online music all the time.
You can also give a try and feel relaxed.
Enjoy.
Friday, February 1, 2008
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hi,
I have very sad problem....frst i ll tell abt myself....now im 26yrs...when i was 20yrs i had a love with one guy....relatnship lasts for two years....aftr dat dat guy got married with another grl....
Aftr that incident i live like a living dead body for four years.....last year december i met a guy....he was bhind me fr soo many days....and i told everyting about my past....and i said i dnt vant any other here aftr....but still he was der....atlast i accepted him....we became soo close.....but now he s telling his family wont accept...etc...bcz of i belong to low caste.....bt frankly im nt low in any corner....bt dnt knw what to do....???everyting luks blank for me....if his family says no to me...vat i have to do....even i cnt go for another.....im already tired of these things....and nothing left to me to live also....i don't have stenght to face that situation once again....plz help me by ur suggestion....
Hi budhasree,
Love failure is not the end of the world.
In life we always have one or the other problems.
God gives these problems to make you stronger.
To make you realize the real world and real people around you.
There are many fake people with fake feelings.
Most men are not true these days and they are not so trust worthy.
You should always love your parents and brothers/sisters more than others.
Whatever happens they always stand with you forever.
These guys are just like passing clouds.
After the first guy broke your heart you were living a hard life for years.
This was the time you should have realized about men.
Again some guy is trying to hurt you.
Why you let someone hurt you in the first place?
Be strong. Be bold. Concentrate on your life. And always take life as it comes.
Never plan so much regarding relationships.
If it works out good. If not its okay. You should come to this stage and maybe its time for you to realize it now.
Always depend only on yourself. Never depend on others.
Work hard to reach your destinations. You wont have time to think of these guys anymore.
Have your own good friends around you. And do not share your love stories to them.
They will start gossiping around or they may give you bad advises.
Only advice I want to say for you in this situation.
If his parents accepts you or don't accept you, you are always the best.
You must believe in yourself.
Who are they to say you are lower caste?
If his parents reject you for this reason, then its better you don't waste time for such people.
They are not even worth your time and tears.
Avoid them.
You are worth more and you deserve a better man.
Always believe in God. He will test you more but he will save you finally.
Enjoy life the way you like.
Stop worrying for people who just want to spoil your happiness.
Learn to enjoy Life and take each day as a lesson. Life always wants to teach us everyday something new.
Hi, myslef vaishnavi
i fell in love with a boy whom i still love the most in the world. and he loved me a lot. he s such a patient fellow. he will not get angry that easily. even if he do, he can be easily convinced by seeing my foto. he loved me that much. i hurted him a lot. he compromised many things in his world only for me. but i never compromised even a single thing for him. i took him in a very easy going way. he got hurted for every single thing i did. but he never expressed that sad part of him.
now he cant handle anymore hurted feelings, he expressed everything to me. i apologized for my mistakes. i felt sorry for him. i sweared that i ll change for him. but im not his point of trust. he wants me to change his mindset completely. but i dont know how to do it. even when i speak in a jovial way, he is not exploring himself. i get hurt while talking in a one way. i dont know how to make him to normal person how to apologize, and how to make things right in my life. i dont want to give up on him. please help with your suggestions.. asap
Hi Vaishnavi,
Now that you realised your mistake its never too late.
You only briefed your problem in outline and I could not possibly think more what mistakes you did to him and how deeply he got hurted.
When a person loved you to that level, he is going to expect the same amount of love and care back. Nothing else but only true love.
Time will heal his hurt and you better think twice before you speak or do something. Just be very careful not to hurt him anymore. And if you do this, then this is sufficient.
Secondly, you can increase the amount of care for him. The more you care shows the more you love.
Good luck with you both.
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